Anonymous Us


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I founded The Anonymous Us Project in 2011 because I knew in my heart that people were not telling the truth about their experiences with third party reproduction (3PR). Shame and an overwhelming reluctance to hurt remaining loved ones, coupled with privacy concerns and a need to maintain dignity have led to a vacuum in the ethical debate over fertility industry best practices. We should be asking ourselves the difficult questions around what it means to separate people from their genetic kin on purpose, and especially for profit.

Anonymous Us is a story-collective for any and all participants in 3PR. Our tagline: Anonymity in donor-conception hides the truth, but anonymity in story-telling helps reveal it.